Chinese dude does a very bad job of explaining that he’s not a nazi but has a kink for nazi shit in the bedroom. Probably a sub processing various racial traumas with kink, one of those being getting dommed by nazis in the bedroom and having their race insulted. It’s a humiliation and masochism kink at its core.
If they actually explained the part that was being misunderstood this whole interaction could have gone differently. The white person is not that kinky and misunderstood having never encountered any of these kinks before. Even someone with some bdsm knowledge could have worked out that it was a subdom “dominate me nazi daddy” thing.
There’s something about encountering an uncomfortable kink that turns everyone into an armchair psychologist.
Yeah this race stuff is absolutely not my thing but like I do get the submissive stuff so I can at least understand the core part of it. A lot of submissive trans people are into being called gender slurs and having that used against them for humiliation, that’s a similar thing, they’re turning their biggest weakness into kink. I can understand that the Chinese dude is just latching onto his own softest spot.
A lot of submissive trans people are into being called gender slurs
I’ve seen that occasionally. I wonder if any trans people have used “Don’t bully me. I’ll cum” tactics against transphobes.
For more fun like this check out the subreddit /r/lolgrindr. Technically nsfw I would say, almost all content is text screenshots but sometimes photos are part of those conversations.
It’s easy to look down when I was blessed with healthy ways to process trauma (crying until given affection)
I once saw a post from a gay Italian looking for “a slav to dominate”, and I was too scared to ask if that was a typo.
liz and brace
I’m kinda on yellow*'s side here, let him have his weird politicopsychosexual kink if it is disconnected from his real life. I would not fuck this person but just leave it at that, no need to tell him how he compares to “other Chinese people I know”.
Although I shudder to think of who will go along with this, with glee
Yep honestly I think blue did something wrong by repeatedly asking someone to tell their dark kinks and then instantly judging them when they do
Plus assuming that kinking about being dommed by someone in a nazi uniform = being ideologically nazi, especially when the person just defined said practice as “depraved and immortal,” is extremely uncharitable
21·15 days agoWhich one is green?
Edit: Do you have something like “night light” on that makes everything more redish. I tried turning mine on and it made the blue look green.
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It’s a masterful joke (even if unintentional) to just say “green” here without elaboration because blue and yellow are almost equally close to green lmao
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I tried maxing mine and it just looked a little bit more piss-dunked
I choose instead to believe green is a fusion of the two grindrers
I believe that grindrers are a spectrum, not a binary. Everything from the closeted university students looking to make a real and lasting monogamous romantic connection now that they’re living on their own, to the “partiers” ranting about everything, to the DL cheaters looking to get some action while their wives are out of town, to the OF bottom himbos looking for ten inches and a physique like a Greek god, to the kinkster crowd looking to jump into someone else’s ropes before even knowing the rigger’s name, to the unhinged maniacs who have even managed to get themselves banned from the absolute dive that is Club Hamilton in Hamilton Ontario, to the posters and lurkers of /r/gaymentoronto bemoaning the lack of real social connections even as they ask if anyone else will be at Spa Excess on Friday.
I know that’s right
Yes, the yellow one I guess. I’m looking at hexbear before the fucking sun comes up
I think it’s funny that so much of BDSM often plays on reactionary thinking. Communities centered around humiliation kinks are full of talk about how betas are genetically inferior for their immutable characteristics (like having a small dick), and should therefore be subservient to their superior alphas. I think it crosses the line when you start to bring racial fetishization into it, and I don’t understand how a nazi kink would work other than being into the uniforms.
Or into the holocaust
I don’t know how that would work as a kink, and I don’t think I want to know.
unfortunately, I checked the thread. Sounds like they just want to pretend both parties are nazis and have sex in uniform? They also agreed with another poster that men are usually into it but this woman was not.
I’m not into bdsm, but dom/sub comes to mind
Yeah, people just use “don’t kinkshame” as a thought-terminating axiom, but I think someone fetishizing behaving in a racist manner might need help. I can’t really say anything about someone who wants to be treated in a racist manner except that it might be good to find other things because it’s better to not have people playing the other role there . . .
It was because he said “hint: I’m Chinese”, she was expressing that she didn’t understand how that was supposed to explain things here. She was absolutely not doing something racist.
Yeah ultimately people are into what they’re into
However I think when it’s something like this you have to be willing to offer a bit more than “I’m Chinese” if you want to engage with people constructively on it
He came in for racism play, got actual casual racism instead.
blue had a completely normal and respectful reaction tbh. i think yellow has a lot of shame around their nazi fetish that made them take it personally
cracker
lol
slur
lmao even
posting screenshots of your grindr, tinder, hinge, bumble, facebook dating, craigslist m4w/m4m/missed connections conversations would trigger an immediate “get this person to a two-week camp that will explain why they need to stop posting such stuff online” flag in my ideal authoritarian communist world
I promise I will not post screenshots of the conversation that led to me putting on a commissar outfit and stepping on someone
you and @someone@hexbear.net need to get in touch i think. bring back c/dating it will work this time i promise
Fediverse-facilitated CSA would be the worst possible way to have the gendarmerie shut down chapo.chat
Fediverse-facilitated CSA
??? why did you leap from ‘dating comm’ to ‘children are going to be sexually abused’???
The primary reason cited by u/lydia(pbuh) for its closure was that with an unknown but >0 proportion of underage users it was a matter of time before something horrible happened
Kinks are weird. I know a guy with a vore kink who’s a die-hard vegan irl.
Well, tbf if the vore is consensual then that would be vegan.
This is why semen from a consenting partner is vegan.
Proteinmaxxing gymbros don’t know this one weird trick!
Napkin math says that it’s not possible to suck enough cock to get a day’s worth of protein even at 2 mins per 4ml of semen
Damn you’re right, even using mean jerk time it would not meet the daily recommended protein intake. And here I thought we could never invent a scenario in which there were too many dicks to suck.
Given more quick napkin math it takes an average of 960 orgasms per 8 hours of jerking. That yields a total 240 gm of protein. And god help us for having done this abominable algebraic equation.
We have at least confirmed that you cannot sustain yourself solely by self procured semen without some sort of semen trade involved.
Also “napkin math” is somehow oddly relevant terminology here.
At this rate you would have to be buying buckets of cum.
Iirc Armin Meiwes (the german guy who killed and ate a willing guy) is a vegan nowadays
I wish I hadn’t read this
So uh asking for a friend but uh how do we feel about a dom outfit involving lots of leather and some USSR military iconography, and non-physical interrogation play?
[A comment that has no problem with what you are concerned about, but is instead concerned about the leather, it’s vegan right, and
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Is it okay if it’s military surplus? I have an old Soviet trenchcoat I got for like 40 bucks and it has a leather collar but I bought it second hand.
generally that breaks on whether using it creates demand for more leather goods, and i doubt it does so meaningfully, and also that’s an awfully individualist concern for people to have.
I wasn’t being super serious but I tend to agree with that line. Also it’s really nice to have in the winter.
All politics is something something
More and more I’m realizing that many subs truly feel as though they deserve domination. I just like physical pain and going along with the bit. We are not the same.
My old girlfriend scratched the hell out of my chest (not even on purpose) and I think it awakened something in me.
And she was the sub in that relationship.
O to be young again.
Haha I’m more of a blunt trauma kinda person. I dated a girl that loved to dig her nails into my back. Was not a fan of he sensation but seeing the damage afterword was pretty cool.
I cherished those little scars for a while ngl. Too bad I blew that relationship. Kinda swore off the whole idea of being with someone afterward out of guilt. Tried dating apps a couple times afterward but that shit sucks.
Yeah fr I just like some ouchies and will play along with being a bad boy
I’d say to some degree this is something of the distinction between someone who is primarily a masochist and someone who is primarily a submissive.
Speaking from personal experience (me), having a strong fetishized draw to the actual act of submission and not having a masochistic bone in my body, it really is a very different thing, yea, and often does connect to non-sexual personality traits and values and such.
Well said. I definitely fall into the masochist camp
I’m getting a lot of questions about my “Chinese guy into Nazi kink” t-shirt that are answered by the shirt.
Everybody’s accepting of kink until it’s something they don’t like.
All of my kinks are morally righteous and the correct amount of deviant. My personal and experiential relationship to the kink exonerates me from endorsing what would otherwise be objectionable about it. Your kink is disgusting. There’s no way you could be into it in a way that is anything but wicked; you clearly endorse what is objectionable about it.
I only have woke kinks while ur kinks are all reactionary and/or revisionist
my only kink is respecting women.
kinda fucked up you’d eroticize that, ngl
i was saying it ironically because people rly say that
I was just goofin anyway
I only have kinks grounded in revolutionary theory, and all your kinks are
kinks.Tagline pls
I think he’s bi or pan. He said blue is a woman, and her username is “tgirlswag”.
I don’t know why anyone would have a conversation like that and then publicly post it using an account that has their face on it.
Edit: I took another look at his profile, and he had the good sense to remove his face from it.
weird as hell
