Group X, Altarpieces, Nos. 1
Esther Rose - Wanton Way of Loving
Boulevard Montmartre - Night by Camille Pissarro / La Vie en Rose - Louis Armstrong
Tracey Chapman - Fast Car
Elvis - If I Can Dream
Huangguoshu Waterfall
Pang Xunqin - 1940
Owl on a Pine Branch (1833)
Utagawa Hiroshige
Boston Cremes (1962) - Wayne Thiebaud
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Why is this? It seems like it would be because you’re being called compared to a masculine noun on a day where it defies your identity. Is there really much difference between one being told they look like a dude vs being called a dude.
If it would bother you to be called a dude, then your understanding of that word doesn’t seem to be that gender neutral
I think someone saying it to say “hey, you…” to me, or “omg” or “woah” is different than when they mean “you look masculine.” Those are some of the different ways I hear the word dude. Usage matters.
I think I don’t understand genderfluidity for others in this way. I know some people that do not go by she/he pronouns exist, but I only understand having she/he/they all at once. If there are resources or experiences you guys can share about being genderfluid and not going by either she or he that’d probably help me understand a better picture of how other people’s genderfluidities can work.
Why not just say “hey, you,” “omg,” or “woah”? These are all perfectly gender neutral phrases. What we’re objecting to is using a very gendered word in place of gender neutral phrases and pretending like the word suddenly becomes gender neutral. Dude is a gendered word, and using it in place of gender neutral phrases, especially to someone who is not a dude, is exactly what is meant by “man by default” language
Is “man by default” language always misogynist? Is it because it erases the possibility that something could be gender neutral or feminine? Therefore erasing gender identity that isn’t masculine?
yes, exactly this