

if you havent already try a safety razor, have found success. also make sure to use shaving cream if you arent… you can always just say you like your hair better long, or that it better covers you from the sun, etc. cis people really dont notice this stuff. with boobs, again, cis people really dont notice this stuff. also lowering your dose wont slow down feminization itll just make you feel like complete garbage, bad idea. also you can always just not go. you dont have to give them an excuse. you are out living your life being your own person, you arent their property or their employee they cant just tell you what to do (and even if you were their employee your not on the job right now :p).
You aren’t responsible for her. You aren’t her parent. It’s not your job to keep her happy. Also it sounds like a pretty asshole move to not accept her daughter for who she is, and to try and make her come over for an entire summer when she’s out living her own life and being her own person.