Pollinators! Did you know that in addition to flying insects like butterflies and bees, some vertebrates act as pollinators, like some species of bats and lizards? If you want, you can be a pollinator. Just transfer pollen between two compatible plants, and you’ve done it!
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Most of the time when people call me a woman it feels comfortable, but there’s one particular guy that it just kind of… Doesn’t feel right when he does it. I don’t know if he’s just trying too hard to be supportive or what it is but when he calls me a woman it makes me feel uncomfortable. I genuinely cannot tell you why.
When I was still 100% “cis™” there was this guy at the gym who gave off jealous boyfriend vibes every time I talked to someone other than him. Turns out he was single, and had weirdly specific physical traits he was looking for in a woman. When I asked about non-physical traits he was into, I felt like I was explaining to a toddler that women are people too.
So while I’m not saying your gut is always right, definitely do not ignore it. Does anyone else feel uncomfortable around him?