it’s hot. also i’m growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i’m excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?

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  • Shaleesh [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    4·
    25 days ago

    Ok so I reread your post and realized that you meant for US ask YOU a few questions… ngl you’re reminding me of myself right after I gathered the cohones to actually transition, I really wanted someone to do that too.

    Umm…

    So, how does cilantro taste to you, is it soapy? Genuine question.

    What is something that you would like to go do, now that you are a little more “you” than you used to be?

    • rando895 [she/her]@lemmygrad.ml
      4·
      25 days ago

      I have been told by my partner that I am very much a stereotype lol. When he found out and we talked about it, he said “ohh that makes sense” like wtf is that supposed to mean? I thought I was hiding it well lol. He told his “work wife” and you know what she said? Ohh yeah that makes sense.

      So now I’m not really surprised when my story is similar to so many others lol.

      Tbh I don’t know if I’ve ever had it… If I have some at home I’ll report back.

      I have been painting my nails and doing my hair for a while now (nail polish helped me stop biting my nails so thats nice) but I’m less weird about it now. So I look forward to being less weird about it outside of my safe space. Really though, and maybe this is sad, but I’d like to be invited to girls night. Last time that group of friends had one they thought I wouldn’t enjoy it. Which is fair given that I was incognito.

      Also confidence. Especially so that I can harass hateful people /fascists. Its one of lifes great pleasures.