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  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    23 days ago

    I struggle with it everywhere, not just where I’m closeted. and unfortunately, because of how I look, I really dont feel like being out in the rest of my life would make me any less isolated or lonely. If I actually look like a woman that will help. Being out to everyone while looking like a man sounds horrible and humiliating. Yea modern life really is soul sucking for the best of us.

    No I didn’t. Meant to earlier. I’ll go get it out now, thank you for the reminder.

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      22 days ago

      I was out well before I passed and before I took HRT, I socially transitioned before even trying voice training, but I had supportive people and I had a take no shit attitude. You know your situation better, all I can say is my fears and anxieties about it were much much worse than my reality of socially transitioning.

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        22 days ago

        I just feel like people won’t look at me right, everyone has some dogshit opinion. Even friends have refused to name me correctly. I don’t want to put up with it or be viewed like that. Maybe after our move. Still worries me a lot about how much harder getting a job is for trans women vs weird guy.