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  • Bolshechick [she/her, kit/kit's]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    Back when I thought I just had depression and anxiety I thought maybe someday I’d be “better”, or at least better enough that I’d be able to do more normal stuff.

    Now that I know that those are just side effects and I’m dealing with BPD, cptsd, and autism there’s not really any hope anymore.

    • TheSpectreOfGay [hy/hym, she/her]@hexbear.net
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      5 days ago

      literally me if you swap out the BPD for DID. yea i have those feelings really often too, really frustrated that i can’t really even leave the house

      for me what helped the most was radical acceptance that it’s actually okay to not be able to do normal stuff and just relax all day, but it took a very very long time to get there

    • un_mask_me [any]@hexbear.netOPM
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      6 days ago

      Those are some heavy things to manage and work through, especially day-to-day. I hope you can still experience some of the things you want in the future, even if they come about a bit differently than you’d imagined.