On the spectrum and neuro-diverse, a tendency towards creating uncomfortable silences and awkward situations. Former comedian, game developer, software developer, tech nerd (the type that understands how evil it’s presence has become in society) Privacy and equality advocate.

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Cake day: August 30th, 2025

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  • I saw them live in 2003 supporting Linkin Park, when I heard about the arrest and subsequent conviction and the true horror of his crimes… I destroyed the CD’s, I deleted the music from my computer.

    I have never allowed their music to assault my ears again and never will.

    I cannot and will not mourn such a piece of shit, and nor will I condemn the person who killed him… I’m not advocating that all paedophiles are killed, but I’m not going to be sad about a proven guilty and convicted being unalived.


  • I still sneak my own food and drink into the cinema when I go… it costs 1/4 of the price that way and the two of us can actually go and see a movie for less than £50 that way. When I was a teenager, you could actually buy 2 tickets & popcorn for less than £10 (90’s)… and we’d sneak a bottle of vodka in.



  • OMG… I used to run a childrens after school project and we were full time during the school hols… So many times we’d organise outings to the lasertag place near us… Had no idea they still existed, it’s probably been almost 20yrs or so… lasertag, roller skating, those activity centres with slides, ropes, tunnels and ball pits… afternoon trips to the cinema to watch a Pixar movie in the summer hols and at least 3 times during the summer break… a big day out to a theme park, museums and other interesting places like cabury world where you can get the kids sick on chocolate samples after scoffing as many as they can and then putting them on a coach for the 2hr drive back… Didn’t do that trip again. :)


  • A bit meh… weather has been absolute dogshit all week… The wind and rain have started causing my early onset arthritis to play up and I’ve been struggling as a result to crack on with some DIY jobs I needed to finish. Then errands, running my elderly mum about for appointments because she decided to schedule appts in the same fucking place on 2 different fucking days… AAARRRGGGHHH!!! Then wanted me to take her to meet my sister on Friday 30 miles away.

    However… here’s the upsides.

    My step-niece had her 2nd child and 2nd boy. Finally finished the prep on the bedroom on Thurs evening, plasterer starts Monday… so painting should commence end of next week. I went out for brunch on Tues & Weds whilst waiting for her to finish her appointments… woohoo, 2 cooked brekkies in a row. I was able to sort out lifts for her for Thurs, so I didn’t have to interrupt my work yet again because she expects me to drop everything at her command (I don’t). Dropped her off to go to the cinema with my sister to see some Downton Abbey movie, and I went and got a nice coffee and some cake.

    Came back home and played Cyberpunk 2077 for a few hrs this afternoon until my partner got home.

    We’re now about to have an early night ;) and watch a little netflix… probably chill.



  • I buy Aldi spreadable butter, as well as their blocks of Welsh butter and pay about £3.50 for one of each… and can’t fault either one of them. If I bought the same stuff “branded” in any of the larger supermarkets, I’d be paying almost double that.

    Likewise, I’m rather fond of the HP Fruity sauce… £2.50 a bottle or more… Supermarket branded variety… tastes the same, £1.10 a bottle.

    I’ve switched from branded stuff to Aldi own brands a lot since the COL crisis a few years ago, that is still ongoing… Not noticed a single drop in quality. But even Aldi have hiked their prices a lot. Frozen beer battered haddock used to be £3.19, is now £4.79, fresh quality sausages used to be £1.79 (6 pack, not the paste filled 8 packs) for caramelised onion/pork/apple/lincolnshire/cumberland and are now £2.49.

    My avg food bill for 2, each month used to be £200-220, including food, drink and cleaning supplies… it’s now £300-320, whilst cutting back on a lot of the luxury items, opting for cheaper things in some places or reducing the number of times we buy them… so steak one every 8 weeks instead of once a month. No fish and chips at home, only as a treat if we go out for a meal (not to a chippy as they’re all bad here).


  • Getting more pissed of as it goes on.

    Started fine, Went for a nice 15 mile bike ride on Sunday

    Went out for a walk along the sea front on Monday and then did some DIY in the afternoon, gutting a bedroom, pulling plasterboard of 2 walls to put acoustic insulation in, and reboard a textured artex ceiling.

    Tuesday, spent the morning unable to see or breathe due to the effects of the dust on Monday, struggled with some work in the morning… So went back to the sea for a walk at lunchtime to clear my head, nose and eyes, had a nice lunch and picked up some cakes for us both for supper that night.

    Weds… sat around all day doing some work and waiting for a delivery… Delivery never arrived.

    Thurs have spent half the morning dealing with company I ordered insulation from, that wasn’t delivered for the 2nd time… they promised the 19th, then the 24th… Now say they can deliver next week… in OCTOBER!!! Told them I needed it by Friday because they’re costing me time and money… the fuckers decided to cancel the order entirely and said they’d refund. Meanwhile, I needed that to finish the prep for the room as the plasterer was due to start on Monday… So now I’ve had to order the insulation elsewhere, who say 48hrs DPD delivery (should have go to them first) and am actually saving some money as there was a 20% off voucher available. Ordered some expanding foam, gun & cleaner to do all of the gaps around the door frame and studwork, as well as some gaps around the edges of floorboards on external walls (can feel a slight draught where joists sit in the walls and have breached the cavity a little).

    So I’ve been getting more and more annoyed as the week went on.

    So this afternoon, I went for another 15 mile bike ride to the coast and sat on a bench overlooking the estuary, listening to the birds squawking and flying around, the occasional light aircraft or helicopter from the small airfield about 15 miles away and the countless doggo’s who came to say hello as their owners took them for walks down to the forest a mile down the path.

    I finally started to feel a little calmer and relaxed… Which is the entire reason I moved from a city to be near the sea and mountains to begin with… serenity now!!!

    Plasterer called back, and can reschedule for next Friday to board and do the ceiling, and pop back the following Monday to skim the walls… insulation scheduled for a 29-30th delivery, which gives me two days to install it… and I can do it in a few hrs.


  • If it’s anything like when I had to wait for security clearances, so I could actually do the job I was hired for… I got so fed up that I quit after 6 months and they still hadn’t been done.

    I was supposed to be doing 2nd line support for local authority, govt, CPS and police systems… I wasn’t even allowed to reset some ones password until clearance was sorted.

    I don;t care how good the money was… sitting around on my arse all day doing menial shit way below my pay grade and self worth just wasn’t worth it… But at least I saved up enough money to see me through the next 6 months without taking too much of a hit to living expenses… I was unemployed, I could get my rent and council tax paid… all I needed was day to day expenses for car, food and utilities. :)


  • Looking after my sisters elderly dog for the week, he’s 13 and has some bad arthritis and pancreatitis. So he has to be monitored and fed a specific diet to try and avoid flare ups, he’s on B12, steroids and pain killer meds too… and drinks a lot of water.

    But a flare up we had this afternoon, he also a poop walker… literally walks and poops at the same time, which is bad enough when it’s normal poop… but when it’s runny yellow poop… at least it’s easy to spot across the deck, the paving and lawn.

    I also caught him drinking water from a dirty plant pot in the garden… which might explain the flare up… and why he refused to go out for a walk at all today. He’s feeling rough.

    Sadly, it also means we have to almost starve him for 18-24hrs, aside from something to take the tablets with. So this evenings meal was a spoonful of rice and boiled egg and his meds… rather than his normal special food… When he has a flare up, it’s starve for 2-3 meals (he’s on 3 small portions a day now) then some chicken, rice and cooked veggies for 1 day, then slowly mix in some of his normal food with the rest.

    Aside from dog sitting, ripping apart a bedroom, wallpaper came off today… thursday start removing the plasterboard on 2 internal walls so I can move some electrics about and add new sockets, as well as TV/Satellite/Ethernet ports in the corner, then put some acoustic insulation in the walls before getting them boarded and skimmed ready for paint and carpet.

    I also did the skirting in the hallway, so that’s another DIY job down and once painted… another room finished… only 3 more to go (guest bedroom, lounge & dining rooms)


  • Got up Monday and started work at 8am… forgetting it was a Bank Holiday… work from home, so not a problem. Got a jump start on the week so I could skive on other days and only work about 25hrs anyway.

    Went for a few bike rides out into the countryside on my ebike for some fresh air and exercise.

    Finished the decorating in the hall, just waiting to fit the new skirting and architrave as joiner is away until next week and it’s a complicated job around radiators and stairs… I can do simple square/rectangular rooms, but this has about 15 corners and other angles to deal with, and he’s doing some oak trim around the new oak staircase to finish, as well as doing the newel post caps that were on order.

    Moved my home office desk/computer into my bedroom for a while, so I can clear out the last two bedrooms ready to decorate next month. Gotta open up some walls in one to fit acoustic insulation and add some extra sockets.

    Watched a few movies and some TV shows… It’s been a very quiet week, hardly left the house. Today is a Sunday, about to go out for another ride as the sun came out and she’s cooking up a chicken and dumpling casserole for lunch.

    Aside from that, some cleaning and washing to do… a typical lazy Sunday.