i’m lucky enough to live nearby a gay beach (for now at least) and it has a cafe/bar on it and all of the male patrons are topless with swim gear on. a non-op trans man wanted to join in last summer and the manager told him that he need to wear a shirt because “boobs are nudity” or leave and; being an extra large cis gay bear myself; i pointed out that my boobs were bigger (and hairier), but they didn’t require me to wear a shirt.
it made other patrons join in and the manager relented and i made a new friend that day. i’m WISH i could stay in this wonderful city; but my autistic ass has scared away all potential employers and i need to earn a living.
i’m lucky enough to live nearby a gay beach (for now at least) and it has a cafe/bar on it and all of the male patrons are topless with swim gear on. a non-op trans man wanted to join in last summer and the manager told him that he need to wear a shirt because “boobs are nudity” or leave and; being an extra large cis gay bear myself; i pointed out that my boobs were bigger (and hairier), but they didn’t require me to wear a shirt.
it made other patrons join in and the manager relented and i made a new friend that day. i’m WISH i could stay in this wonderful city; but my autistic ass has scared away all potential employers and i need to earn a living.