First I’ll say that I think it’s important to appreciate that you did have a good relationship (I’m assuming, since you’re sad about it ending.) Most things don’t last forever, but they bring joy while they’re present and you had a temporary experience of a relationship that many people never will. Cherish that enriching joy, and be thankful you got to experience it.
The thing I heard when I was in a similar place that helped the most sounds can sound kind of harsh so if you’re not ready to read that kind of thing stop here.
If you broke up, that’s good, because if you broke up that means it definitionally wasn’t going to last. And if it wasn’t going to last it’s probably best for you to break up so you can find someone who you will go the distance with.
I hope you find peace with this as soon as you can comrade. Good luck going through it.
I’m sorry you’re going through it.
First I’ll say that I think it’s important to appreciate that you did have a good relationship (I’m assuming, since you’re sad about it ending.) Most things don’t last forever, but they bring joy while they’re present and you had a temporary experience of a relationship that many people never will. Cherish that enriching joy, and be thankful you got to experience it.
The thing I heard when I was in a similar place that helped the most sounds can sound kind of harsh so if you’re not ready to read that kind of thing stop here.
If you broke up, that’s good, because if you broke up that means it definitionally wasn’t going to last. And if it wasn’t going to last it’s probably best for you to break up so you can find someone who you will go the distance with.
I hope you find peace with this as soon as you can comrade. Good luck going through it.