idgi either. all of my grandathers were dead when I was born, but due to a remarriage I acquired a living grand parent who fought in WW2. he was a friendly guy, but harbored some weird cultish opinions about The LORD or whatever and was very much an uncritical product of his place and time regarding race and gender.
overall, he seems more likeable than the ones that died before I was born… people who were raging, abusive drunks dying from their choices before 50.
I don’t really get the impulse to do reputation management for them. just say who they were and what they were about to any curious party. maybe if any of them left me any $ I would feel like I was supposed to explain or justify something.
idgi either. all of my grandathers were dead when I was born, but due to a remarriage I acquired a living grand parent who fought in WW2. he was a friendly guy, but harbored some weird cultish opinions about The LORD or whatever and was very much an uncritical product of his place and time regarding race and gender.
overall, he seems more likeable than the ones that died before I was born… people who were raging, abusive drunks dying from their choices before 50.
I don’t really get the impulse to do reputation management for them. just say who they were and what they were about to any curious party. maybe if any of them left me any $ I would feel like I was supposed to explain or justify something.